December 2011
72 posts
Anonymous asked: Yesterday I started getting so much anonymous hate on formspring. I'm afraid I'm gonna do it again because of that. Help me? What should I do?:((
Please remember that the video isn’t all about the “It Gets Better” project so you then you can use quotes, song lyrics, or anything that inspires you or reminds you that self harm and/or suicide is not the answer.
If you do decide to submit a video then please leave a download link as well in the submission, thank you.
singmetosleep-1d asked: If I want to submit a picture for your 'it gets better' how do I do it?
Anonymous asked: You probably shouldnt steal it from them they can get sooky
underathousandmilesofsea asked: OOOOOHH OOOH MAY I JOIN?!!! I would love to be part of the video!
Anonymous asked: An 'it gets better' video is mainly for the gays.
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I'm currently in the process of making a self...
The “It gets better” project is amazing and until recently I haven’t looked into it but by watching all of those videos inspired me to make one but would like you to be part of it.
If you do decide to take part then you can submit a short video, picture, even just a message and if you want to then you can incorporate the words ”It Gets Better” but you do not have...
Anonymous asked: I got alot of anon hate from a person on formspring, telling me to go kill myself, that i'm anorexic whore ,slut , ugly bitch , that noone is going to miss me , that I'm a spoiled stupit piece of shit. I didn't do anything to make someone hate me at least not that I'm aware of. It almost made me want to do it again after 3 weeks, but I am going to be stronger than that. I...
Anonymous asked: The first time I cut I was 12, and I remember I tried getting help through my mom. In no way did she or my dad understand, so they yelled at me and called me pathetic. Thankfully I haven't cut in years (I'm now 16) and I hope to keep it that way. I just hope that for all of you who turn to self harm, some people don't understand, and never will. But there are people who CAN help...
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myheartoverpowered asked: When I was about six, and my parents lost custody of me, I started over-eating a lot. By the time I was eight, I hated everything about myself. When I was about nine, I would black out occasionally & just take out all the anger on myself by physically beating myself. When I was ten, I developed a form of Trichotillomania, caused by anxiety. I started cutting when I was 11 & have attempted...
Anonymous asked: I couldn't pinpoint the exact time I started self harming. But I think I must have been around six maybe seven, hell maybe younger. I didn't see it as harming, I saw it as a way to get away from the guilt of being sexually abused and not telling anyone while it was happening (I was like, 3/4) and only realising what was happening was wrong as the guy who did it was dying and my mum was...
uncreativegirl asked: i think christmas is such a sad time! i don't know why, but i want to cry and i want it to end soon. in fact i want this year to end :( im fighting against my razor. i don't wanna cut anymore but it is calling me. and this internal fight is killing me
Anonymous asked: On the school me and my group did a lecture about depression, self harm, suicide and blah blah blah and everyone in that class is so fucking futile and they judge "oh, she cuts herself, she is a attention seeker" and we said "who cuts in some place that appears can may calling for help and what all of u do? Judge them!". If everyone in the world knew how bad is for someone the...
Anonymous asked: I cant stop bleeding..
Anonymous asked: Can I have your personal blog please?
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dancewiththedarkness asked: I'd like to be able to say, I will never cut again, but I will never be able to say that. Every day is a struggle to not self harm. Most days, I fight the urges, but then there are the nights that I will never be able to handle. I started cutting at about thirteen. I'd like to say I have controlled my problem, but cutting is an obsession, an addiction. My addiction with self harm is a...
darknessengulfing asked: What really hurts for me, is reading all of these messages about when people started hurting themselves and I realized that only two people started younger than me. I started around 8 when my life went down hill, I am 22 now; 14 years. That is longer than many of this blogs followers have been alive. People always say that people get past this, I feel maybe there are people that just can and I am...
Anonymous asked: i cut because im in love with my ex, and hes moved on, he was my first for everything, and i was in love with him for 2 years before i got the courage to talk to him, then we dated for a year and it fell apart for reasons, it wasnt our fault, im still his friend and every day he talks about this girl and how much he loves her and it kills me, so i cut :/
Anonymous asked: I'll be 19 soon, I've been cutting since 12 or 13. At first it was here and there, just little scratches. Then it escalated to bad cuts every day. Within the past half year, I have gotten SO much better. The cutting is extremely rare. But I've been struggling with some health things, and feel so crappy. I've seen one thing where someone is in their 10th year of trying to find a...
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Why
Because I wanted control. Control over being heart and what I felt.
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Because I have no one. Nobody wants me, they all...
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First Time
I heard other people did it. And it helped. It fucked you up, but it helped. And I wanted to deal with this on my own. I wanted to help myself on my own. So I started scratching. And I liked it. I love my scars. I love what the remind me of. That shit can be a lot worse. But I hate how much self control it takes to not keep doing it. (2 months remission)
Anonymous asked: I just tried to go the whole day without cutting and I went completely crazy and had a horrible replapse. I really want to stop :( Any advice?
-suicidaltendencies asked: I've just posted my story. It was a very hard move to post it so publicly, it is only under a small tab on my own blog. I hope you post it, it will probably need to be under a read more as it could be triggering. I wondered if you allow it to be posted, when would that be? Thanks, this blog has helped a lot and I hope it continues to help others <3
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(Trigger Warning) Am i control yet?
zeldadancer asked: I haven't cut for 3 days and it's killing me. I've tried drawing, writing, making things out of clay, everything. Nothing is working right now.
Anonymous asked: hiC:
Anonymous asked: My mom took away my razors :( What do I do?
Sorry I forgot to say that if you do submit a picture of cuts then I will make them into ‘read more’ posts simply because I know that for some seeing cuts and blood can be a very big trigger to them.
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Trigger Warning: Photo of cuts
My belly’s not looked like this in a long time.
Anonymous asked: thank you so much, your amazing honestly.. ♥
alonethroughitall asked: You are more then welcome. Be strong, everyone. Especially that anon. Also, love your blog. For exactly this reason. Helping if I can, and learning something if I can't help.
alonethroughitall asked: @Anon: Do you think your boyfriend would want you to hurt yourself why he isn't there to talk to you and be with you? I don't think he would. He must like you a lot if he was your first everything, so he must care for you, too. Rather that hurting yourself because of him, don't hurt yourself because of him and make him know you're strong enough to be there with and for him. I...
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Anonymous asked: my boyfriend is in the hospital. he was my first everything. i love him so much & i'm so scared to lose him. that's why i do it. i know it's pathetic.
Anonymous asked: why is the urge to cut so hard? my best friends know I do it, even though I didn't want them too, but they see me as a like attention seeker now just because everytime I cut it's for the same reason, it seems stupid to them but it's sensitive to me, do you not think if I could move on I would? I'm hurt, alot.. and I don't want to anymore, please help me? :(
Anonymous asked: 10, someone made a rude comment at me in school and then when I went home, my mom started fighting at me. Took a razor, and just slashed at my arm/wrist and that's how it started...
paiigeyx asked: 14 when i started cutting, and i'm not gunna go anon.
Anonymous asked: I just want to say that I started cutting when I was 15, I cut on and off for two years. My parents discovered what I was doing to myself and made me talk to a therapist. She was helpful, but I helped myself more than she did. I'm now 18 and havn't cut for 9 months. Theres times when i'm tempted, but I pull through. I just want to say that there is hope for all of you, I pinkie...